the secret of perspective

ok so I seen this particular picture around so I wanted to make a comment on it or else I might explode! girls and boys alike pay special attention what I'm giving you tonight...

since is in spanish I'll translate and for the ones that don't need the translation you can read it for yourself.

"Never make a woman cry

because God counts her tears

the woman came out from the rib

of the man

not the from the feet to be step on

nor from the head to be superior

but rather from one side

to be his equal, under an arm

to be protected and next to

the heart to be loved"

As luck would have it many of us have the wrong idea that love is like a battle for dominance, control, or simple misunderstanding of the concept or our partnes. Why I'm saying this?

both genders tend to feel that we don't "understand" what the other is saying (mostly men) or feel "misunderstood" (mostly us girls). ladies, we both know that we might feel superior to man because we are in touch with our feelings, while you gentlemen feel that we are overly emotional. If you still think that way, you are going to rub the oppposite sex the wrong way; sure, for us women is important to show our emotions because as I read in story once " the heart of a woman is one of the most fragile and strongest thing in the world and is capable of a thousand wonders" is what kept the world glued together, because of the joy and happiness we can bring to man's life.

now gentleman you might not feel comfortable showing your emotions but that doesn't mean that you don't have any! (girls take notes) though any man who is brave enough to show his emotions has my admiration and my applause (along with many other girl's) though is certaintly not easy for you is not impossible. it is true that a guy prefers to be usually rational or assertive or "alert mode" than deal with emotions since you know those aren't particularlly your strong point or may feel that you have no control whatsoever if you deal with them. the only way to reach your partener is through some compromise of your own and understanding that even though you have different natures you can still deal well with each other, but understanding is the key to solve many minor injuries that occur in a relationship or dating scene- seek to understand and you shall be understood, those are things that will save a guy many headaches, irritation and groveling to do, and save the hurt feelings, desapointment and anger on your part ladies.